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Writer's pictureKarena - Beside the Sea

What causes suffering in us? Our tears may help us to heal.

Updated: Oct 14, 2023


What causes suffering in us? Our tears may help us to heal. Join us for a one-day Family/Systemic Constellation Day that shows us a way to unite our hearts in transforming our suffering to our joy.


When the seeds of suffering begin in our hearts we are often unaware of the great Love that lies within our tears. In our anger, grief, tolerance or pain, we see only suffering - yet our tears may help us by alerting us to our true feelings. When our dilemma, issue or situation is seen phenomenologically in a constellation, a new awareness and forthcoming understanding can transform our experience and firmly held past patterns with compassion, and we can begin to move forward.


Our way of relating to an experiences, our unhelpful patterns and challenging situations in our world can begin to heal. As Thich Nhat Hanh says, " We have to learn how to embrace and cradle our own suffering, and the suffering of the world with a lot of tenderness." TNH, Transforming Suffering, Feb, 2022. Our embracing of suffering with compassionate strength and gentleness can increase in us in our capacity to connect to one another in our common humanity. Jesus said, " Let the children come to me, and do not prevent them; for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these. " (Matthew 19 13-15) For me, this is an encouragement to remain openhearted and responsive to one another so that we can continue to love one another. In a Family/Systemic Constellations, the phenomenological process helps us to see what has been preventing us form living life with ease and flow.


There is often much suffering in apparently loving relationships between friends, couples, siblings, work colleagues. During a Family/Systemic Constellation Day we have time to look experientially and simply at the facts of our situation, at what is holding us, limiting us, keeping us stuck in past patterns or preventing us from moving forward. Seeing more accurately helps us to heal.


Come and join us on all or one-day on September 23, October (TBC), November 12, December 9 for a Family Systemic Constellation Workshops where we unite our hearts in seeing our situations with compassion and understanding.


To register for a workshop go to www.besidethesea.au


Or for more information or to register please SMS to arrange a phone call: Karena on 0434 674 753


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